I had a long discussion with my friend today about dating.

We had two takeaways:

1. Purpose is the most attractive thing in a guy or girl. 

Associate your happiness with your own purpose (aka love yourself first). 

Not only is this the best life advice, but as far as dating, it signals to others that you don’t mind their rejection because you’ve already got important things to get back to.

It’s basically saying “Hey, I like you, but if you don’t like me, that’s fine, I’ll just go back to what I was doing and be just as happy.”

Instead of worrying about impressing your date, think about if they are actually impressive to you.

Ask them a million questions. When they state their opinions, ask why. Go deeper. Be curious.